My spouse and I are fighting more and more. Is there hope for our marriage?

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My spouse and I are fighting more and more. Is there hope for our marriage?

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Is tension rising in your marriage? Do you find that you’re fighting more and more and don’t know how you’re ever going to get things under control, let alone, build a positive relationship?

I understand how exhausting it is to be in a marriage where there seems to be constant tension between you and your spouse. It feels like a dark trap that only gets darker, the more you go in.

In this video, I share insights on how fighting is actually a hopeful sign for you and your marriage. You might think I’m crazy saying that, but there is a powerful shift that occurs when we look at our obstacles as opportunities. There is room to learn and grow here.

Imagine how learning to deescalate situations, how to stop letting your spouse get under your skin, and how to be a soother in tense situations could better your marriage. What kind of effect would this have on our spouse? What effect would it have on you?

These are skills that can be LEARNED. They often don’t come to us naturally, but the good news is, is that we all have the opportunity to learn and master them. And that is amazingly hopeful!

Thrive On!
-Heather Choate

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