Every situation is different but we only have two hard and fast rules about a marriage that this course will not help.
1. You have 0 communication. No phone calls, visits, texts. Nada. If that's your situation, I'm sorry but this course isn't for you.
2. Your spouse is making future plans with another person. Wedding, having a baby, moving in together, etc. Again, we understand how challenging this is but this course won't help you with that. (We do help couples who've had an affair, only when both partners aren't creating future plans with another person outside of the marriage).
If your situation isn't one of the two above, this course will work for your marriage. You will learn exactly what you need to do to restore trust, improve communication, get needs meet for you and your spouse, create healthy boundaries and.... (everything else we shared above :)
The real issue is really your fear.
Fear that it won't work.
Fear that you'll spend money or put forth effort and it won't pan out.
That's understandable and often natural, but check-in with yourself. Where will that kind of fear-based decision making lead you?
Is it going to save your marriage?
Get your spouse back?
Or is it going to waste more time while they slip further and further away?
Many people join our programs with a bit of skepticism, but their hope and desire for it to work outweighs their fear. They want to know that they gave their marriage the best shot of working and that they did everything they could to save it.
I'll stop talking now and simply share with you others who felt the way you do....